When it comes up to Christmas and the holiday period, we know that divorced and separated parents can have a really hard time deciding who looks after the children and navigating those tricky relationships that so many parents must balance post-separation. It is a particularly emotional time for all those involved, especially for the children who can often feel they are put in the middle of tense relationships between their parents.
How can we help?
We wanted to outline some of the steps we take in our work to ensure all the proceedings surrounding divorce are taken care of to avoid any confusion or difficulties this time of year. Though we cannot always promise that parents will have a good personal relationship, we do work to make sure that we avoid protracted proceedings where possible so they can have a workable relationship that means the children are not subjected to as much distress.
When you are experiencing problems in your relationship, we know that your children are often your main concern. During a separation, you are still a parent and it is necessary that your child is able to adjust to a new situation with support. It is so important, particularly on occasions like Christmas and birthdays, for example, that you can find a practical, workable solution in disputes over children that will often arise in the process of divorce or separation.
We can work with you to ensure that your child’s needs are prioritised, with the aim of minimising the effect of the separation on their wellbeing. We are experienced in dealing with a wide range of issues relating to children, and recognise the need to deal with them sensitively. It is better for any dispute about a child to be resolved voluntarily, which is the conclusion we aim to come to.
Where will the children go for Christmas?
However, we know sometimes it does become necessary for issues to be determined by a judge, where we will advise you based on the specific circumstances of your situation. Sometimes, a court may make an order, which could include a child arrangement order, parental responsibility order, or a specific issue order. We understand that in these circumstances it can be really difficult to organise a child’s schedule around the holidays, but we will always try and make sure you and your ex-partner are able to co-operate where possible to give the child the best time they can possibly have.
The decision to end a marriage or partnership is serious, and must be treated as such. Our specialist family solicitors will always work to alleviate your stress, working with you to ensure you have all information. Our advice covers all issues you might need to consider in divorce proceedings, including matters related to finances and children – which is vital around Christmas and the holiday period where it is vital your situation is clear and set out for the wellbeing of any children involved.
We always aim to avoid expensive protracted litigation wherever possible, so we always recommend attempting to come to a conclusion together if you can. We offer our assistance in the complex financial settlements involved in divorce, to ensure you protect your finances at the end of a relationship, so you don’t continue to have contested issues between the two of you when it comes to working together to raise the children.
Get in touch
If you are concerned you might need some help, please get in touch with us to book a no-obligation, confidential, free consultation. We are always happy to have a chat with you about your situation, and advise you where you feel you need some assistance in your separation, especially at Christmas time.
